HYPOCRITES HAVE A FAMILIAL EGOTISM; THEY ONLY CONCERN THEMSELVES WITH THEIR FAMILIES
One should take note of every aspect of hypocrites' lives. For example hypocrites consider the institution of marriage as an important weapon. In a way, the institution of marriage is like the stronghold of hypocrisy. It is a source of happiness for Muslims, but a stronghold for hypocrites. Hypocrites are not concerned about Islamic community. They only concern themselves with their families. Islam is based on the principle of guardianship, that is protecting all Muslims. In the Islamic system, all Muslims constitute a single, full family, consisting of fathers, sons, brothers, mothers, daughters and sister. Whereas for hypocrites, they are only concerned with their own family. Theirs is an egoistical entity. For example, fascism is national egotism where one deems their own nation superior to others. This manifests itself as familial egotism in hypocrites. They are only concerned with their own families since they see their wives and children as property. They also have actual, physical properties, possessions upon which they have built the prospect of an infinite life. They think that even if they die, their children will inherit their possessions, also inheriting their lives, thus they believe they can reach eternity. They built all aspects of their lives around their own family. For example, the Messenger of God (saas) says; "There is an attack that targets all of the Muslims, regardless of age or gender." A hypocrite asks, "Alright, but what about my family? I will go to war to fight against them, but what will happen to my family?" He continues, "My house will be left unprotected. My house is important." The Messenger of God (saas) responds, "Look, we will save all the houses," to which the hypocrite says, "I only want to save my own house." Or for example, when the Messenger of God (saas) says, "Let's go and bring salvation to all the Muslims, this is what the spirit of guardianship calls for." But a hypocrite says, "I cannot go out to fight in the heat." Because he does not care about the institution of Muslims, he only cares about his own.
THOSE WHO PAY ATTENTION CAN SEE THAT HYPOCRITES VEHEMENTLY OPPOSE THE JUDGMENT DAY; THEY DO NOT WANT IT THE HOUR TO COME IF IT IS POSSIBLE
Hypocrites says, "I do not think that the Judgment Day will arrive, but even if it does, I believe that my life in the Hereafter will be as nice as it is in here." This is a characteristic of hypocrites which is disclosed in the verse of the Qur'an. They say, "I do not think that the Judgment Day will come, but even if it does, I believe that my life will be just as wonderful in the Hereafter."
BELIEVERS TRUST IN GOD, AND AS A MEANS OF WORSHIP TO GOD, THEY ALSO TRUST IN ALL MUSLIMS. HYPOCRITES DO NOT TRUST IN GOD AND THINK THAT THEIR SALVATION LIES IN THEIR FAMILIES. THIS IS WHY MARRIAGE IS AN INSANELY INSTINCTIVE GOAL FOR HYPOCRITES
Hypocrites do not trust in God. As they are extremely afraid of death and their future, out of a bestial instinct and fear, and a mental state brought about by their distrust in God, hypocrites only trust in their family and think that their salvation lies in them. They believe that their spouses, their children will save them. Contrarily, believers trust in God because their children might die one day, so might their spouses; or things might no go as planned and they might have a divorce. Anything can happen. Or their spouses might leave the house. Their children might abandon them; anything can happen. There are occasions where children abandon their parents even on their deathbeds. Some leave them to die so that they can inherit the money of their parents. It's the way the world turns. But believers trust in God, so they do not look to their children, their family to save them; they look to God and and trust in all Muslims as a community. Thus, they put their trust in hundreds or millions of Muslims, but of course they do so as a means to worship God. However, since hypocrites merely trust in their families, the institution of marriage becomes an obsession to the point of insanity. It turns into a mad and instinctive goal. As God says in the verse of the Qur'an; "If your fathers or your sons or your brothers or your wives or your tribe...or any business you fear may slump..." In the Qur'an, God explicates a family system, describing in full detail all the characteristics of the family with all its perks.
